With so much changing in the world right now from threats to the economy to a changing job landscape, I wanted to learn how to talk to your family about the uncertainty. In this episode, we explore how to have difficult conversations about money with family members, partners, and children.
Full episode here on Youtube:
Key Topics
Having difficult money conversations with partners
Setting and maintaining financial boundaries
Managing money with kids and dependents
Understanding your personal money story
Dealing with guilt and shame around financial changes
Building effective money systems

Key Takeaways
Communication is crucial but needs to be handled thoughtfully - set the stage for important conversations rather than springing them on people
Use "I feel" statements and center emotions when discussing financial changes
Your money beliefs are shaped by your earliest experiences - understanding this helps navigate current challenges
Setting boundaries isn't just about saying "no" to others - it's also about setting limits with yourself
Be age-appropriate when discussing money with children
Focus on experiences and long-term investing for kids rather than material goods
Practical Tips
For Money Conversations:
Choose the right time and setting
Lead with emotions and personal experience
Give partners grace to process information
Use "I feel" statements
Avoid springing sensitive conversations without warning
For Building Money Systems:
Start by understanding your feelings about money
Know what's coming in and going out monthly
Set up automated payments where possible
Check finances at least monthly (weekly preferred)
Use high-yield savings accounts for emergency funds
For Setting Boundaries:
Communicate changes in financial situation clearly
Offer alternative ways to show love/support beyond money
Remember that people's reactions belong to them
Be prepared for initial negative responses
Focus on quality time over financial support
Recommended Resources
Books mentioned:
"Finance for the People" by Paco de Leon
"Get Good with Money" by Tiffany Aliche
"Money Out Loud" by Berna Anat
"I Will Teach You to Be Rich" by Ramit Sethi
"The Simple Path to Wealth" by J.L. Collins
"Feel Good Finance" by Aja Evans
Apps mentioned:
Monarch Money (budgeting app)
Copilot (financial tracking)
About Our Guest
Aja Evans is the President of the Financial Therapy Association and author of "Feel Good Finance." As a financial therapist, she helps people understand their relationship with money and develop healthier financial habits. Her work focuses on the intersection of money, relationships, and personal growth.
Connect with Aja
Instagram: @AJAetherapy
LinkedIn: Aja Evans LMHC
Website: ajaevanscounseling.com
Book: "Feel Good Finance" (available at independent bookstores via Bookshop.org)
Get in Touch
Have a question about navigating money conversations with family? Email us at stuck@213studios.com or send us a voice note.
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Produced by Rob Curtis, Jamal Stockton, and Jimena de la Tijera
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